Sunday 8 September 2013

32) Give Quietly


The Bhagavad Gita describes us all as having the lower self and the higher self. It is the lower self which is selfish, that give us our limited perspective, making us feel separate and disconnected from everyone else. Identifying ourselves as separate and disconnected produces huge problems. We feel insecure, unstable, vulnerable, dissatisfied, which can lead to anger, depression, and cravings to fill the void.

Wherever there is a feeling of separateness and disconnectedness, there will always be a tendency to manipulate others, to take advantage of them for our own gain.  

Some people don’t feel the separation so keenly. They can function quite happily without the need to lean on others. Where the feeling of separateness is much greater, it can cause loneliness, jealousy, depression, anger, resentment, regret, greed etc.

All these can then feed on each other, causing a boiling cauldron ready to explode at any minute.

The upper self is the selfless side, the part of us that loves unconditionally, that wants to give and serve others, that wants to nurture and look after others for nothing in return, the side that appreciates beauty. This is the side that seeks to evolve and grow, to fulfil our potential.

Lets nurture, develop, encourage our selflessness. It is so much more fulfilling to live that way. We feel happier and more fulfilled, and those around us do too. True selflessness is where we do things for others without any expectation of reward, and best of all, if we don’t shout about what we’ve done.

We need to get out there in the world, and set a good example. Be quiet and selfless and giving and loving.

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